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What makes you different?

14.06.2025 04:59

What makes you different?

Being different is being a mess, yet being okay with it.

Being different is being a weirdo. And being okay about it.

Indeed, a number of other factors contribute to your uniqueness, but that’s for you to introspect.

I can’t get any girl I want, but I can just get some not my type of girls, so I feel I’m so ugly. What should I do?

So, what actually makes us all different?

Tried everything. A well-paying corporate job, govt. exams. Nothing provided me with security. I didn’t have time to myself. Hustling was my name. Didn’t go to parties, travel or anything. Didn’t talk to friends.

He would have experienced the miracle called light. Maybe he got better food to eat. Then he got wounded. Then in search of balm, he travaled to the wilderness and found a party of rats, eaten to its heart’s content and danced the night out.

How could NASA possibly land on the moon when it's impossible to reach the moon through the Earth's dome? Why are they making up such an obvious lie?

Neither I’m Tesla, who got poor grades in school, nor I’ve grown to invent electric current that powers many electronic devices today. Nor I’m an entrepreneur who is the idea behind the Tesla cars.

What makes you YOU.

Can you make it?

Is there an MBTI personality that is more or less likely to handle stress?

Not ignoring emotions because they can be destructive. Not underestimating your aspirations because society calls them second-rate.

Long story short, here I am. Being a writer. Doing things I’d always love to do. Sharing my experiences of what I learnt.

Do anything and everything because you like it. You love it. Do the things that make you go crazy. Things you’d barter your breath for. Things that make your life a rainbow.

Are there any more 'nun' jokes?

I always yearned to go for government jobs because I had a few relatives already into it and doing well with money and security. And here is me, with an arts background, uncertain about what to choose.

So, keep on experimenting.

Until the day I choose to listen to myself. I let my subconscious go wherever it wanted me to go. It was not just in dreams I wanted to live, but in real life. Not allowing others to cloud my personality, my ability, my inclination towards philosophy, knack to motivate others, and my indifference towards others’ opinions.

Which Bibles can one read and be confident they are reading the inerrant word of God?

Without experiments, is life worth it.

Experiments: My life has been a group of experiments that failed to take off until I resorted to writing.

I know being a writer is no different. But my journey is different. Its unique to me.

I have a "fat pussy" and I'm super self cautions about it. Do guys think it's gross?

Experiences: What has happened to me? Have I led a normal life with two parents and two siblings? Yes. Breakups I’ve had. Friends I’ve made. School I have attended. Guides I’ve met. Places I’ve been.

"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." - Oscar Wilde

You can be fearful and still use it to tame your weaknesses and build your emotional strength.

Why do men prefer low-maintanence women?

Not because people show it off and you have to follow the lead.

I experimented. A lot. And now I know I don't need more trials of this kind. I’m writing this today at just the right place from the comfort of my home while it rains outside. While a cold breeze rings music to my senses.

To take out these experiments, accept the asymmetry of your emotions, your eccentricities, aspirations and thoughts for what they actually are. Instead of filtering it through the social system, recognize the difference and apply it in your life.

How do I get my body in shape?

Even if that means disappointing your parents and teachers for some time, but believe you’ll eventually make them feel proud.

All of it would have been different, and this life would mean something, at least for him.

Become different not according to the world, but according to what you like and what you don’t.

I am still studying engineering. I feel worried being an average student. Can I get a good job in placement, buy a house, and a car? I don't know why I feel this.

What if he’d come outside?

Being different is being okay with failure, so you know what the dessert of a win tastes like.

If you’ve read this far, let me tell you one more thing.

How do I stop my 12-year-old daughter from crying herself to sleep? I have punished her and she still does it.

A govt. job could do it for me. Plus Money, plus security, plus prestige.

I have always wanted to write things. Wrote poetry during my grad and reluctantly left it for preparation of a govt. exam because who’s got extra time for it.

“The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” - Lao Tzu

Are miracles real or do they just have natural explanations?

Don’t drink because everybody does today.

Don’t get a partner because you’re jealous of your friends.

Anxious to get a job, I chose to do what was socially recommended for me. So, I tried. Being a govt. servant. Failed. A Research Scholar. Didn’t make it. A Professor. Guess what?

Why did McLaren hope that the Ferrari pair would pit twice during the Italian Grand Prix?

Consider a rat who never came out of the hole fearing for his life. He stayed in the dark for years and died one day, unbeknownst.

Agree?

"Life is a journey, not a destination. Enjoy the ride." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

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You know how all of this enlightenment came to me.

Take my word. You won’t regret it.

Yes, I was not at all happy.

Everything has shaped me. Friends who gave me their pens and journals. Best friends I never made. Crush that made me write poems while he didn’t care. Romances I’ve missed. Opportunity to become an editor or a news correspondent I missed. I think all this has made me the writer I am.

P.S. What’s your idea of being different? Do you have a different point of view?

Otherwise, thank you for reading. It was fun writing to you all. Hope it helped you in more ways than one.

Don’t go to the gym because it’s a fitness fad.

Honestly, there’s nothing that makes ‘me’ different.

I am an ordinary human being with the same body structure as you who are reading, you and I have the same material of what our bodies and brains are made up of.

Don’t choose to be an engineer just because it pays well.

C’mon, it’s an opportunity to break the rules, stand out and become ONE of a kind.